Race (Race & Ethnicity Conversation Series)
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The expressed American ideal is the creation of a society that is fair and has opportunity for all, regardless of individual or group identity. Even as we work to build a nation that reflects those ideals, there are challenges to living into its fullest expression. This conversation series is an opportunity to explore our varied experiences of race and ethnicity in the American context. Where are we and what do we aspire to for ourselves and our communities?
This Race and Ethnicity series has its own specialized training materials. Please contact Beth@LivingRoomConversations.org to access them.
Background Information:(This is the first conversation in our Race & Ethnicity series of three conversations. You can check out the second one here and the third one here.) You can also listen to a podcast recording of this conversation here. Definitions: In the American context, “race” and “ethnicity” are complex terms that are often used interchangeably. These terms were initially separated to designate “race” as a biological quality and “ethnicity” as a cultural phenomenon. For the purposes of deeper exploration, these guides makes deliberate distinctions between these two identifiers. For this conversation (part 1 of the 3-part Race and Ethnicity Cohort Conversation), we will focus on race as it is commonly defined. Common definitions of include: Race:
- A grouping of humans based on shared physical or social qualities into categories generally viewed as distinct by society.
- A group of persons related by common descent or heredity.
- An arbitrary classification of modern humans, sometimes, especially formerly, based on any or a combination of various physical characteristics, as skin color, facial form, or eye shape, and now frequently based on such genetic markers as blood groups.
- A socially constructed category of identification based on physical characteristics, ancestry, historical affiliation, or shared culture.
Let's Get Started!
Why We're Here (~10 min)
Share your name, where you live, what drew you here, and if this is your first conversation.
How We'll Engage (~5 min)
These will set the tone of our conversation; participants may volunteer to take turns reading them aloud. (Click here for the full conversation agreements.)
- Be curious and listen to understand.
- Show respect and suspend judgment.
- Note any common ground as well as any differences.
- Be authentic and welcome that from others.
- Be purposeful and to the point.
- Own and guide the conversation.
What We’ll Talk About
Optional: a participant can keep track of time and gently let people know when their time has elapsed.
Getting to Know Each Other (~10 min)
Each participant can take 1-2 minutes to answer one of these questions:
- What sense of purpose / mission / duty guides you in your life?
- What would your best friend say about who you are and what inspires you?
- What are your hopes and concerns for your community and/or the country?
Round Two: Race (~40 min)
One participant can volunteer to read the paragraph at the top of the web page.
Take ~2 minutes each to answer a question below without interruption or crosstalk. The group may choose to have everyone answer: A) whichever question speaks to them individually or B) the same question with an option to pass. Once everyone has answered, the group may take a few minutes for any clarifying or follow up questions/responses. Continue exploring with other topic or related questions as time allows.
- What qualifications do you use to determine a person’s race?
- What is an early memory of race (not necessarily racism)? Or what is a powerful memory of race that still informs how you navigate relationships where race is a factor?
- Was that memory of race a positive or negative experience for you?
- Do you feel your race impacts your daily life? If so, how?
- Were conversations about race a part of your upbringing? If so, how was the subject approached? How did people around you talk about other races?
Reflecting on the Conversation (~15 min)
Take 2 minutes to answer one of the following questions:
- In one sentence, share what was most meaningful or valuable to you in the experience of this Living Room Conversation?
- What new understanding or common ground did you find within this topic?
- Has this conversation changed your perception of anyone in this group, including yourself?
- Name one important thing that was accomplished here.
- Is there a next step you would like to take based upon the conversation you just had?