Conversation Guides are developed with professional mediators to help diverse participants connect and discover shared values, even as they may disagree. We offer conversation guides for over 80 different topics. Browse all our topics below.
Most Popular Topics
What is it about voting that inspires us to participate or turn away, feeling it’s not worth our effort? In this conversation, ahead of the 2018 midterm elections, we talk about what leads us to vote or not to.
This topic is warm, welcoming and great to get to know how different people perceive America, their fears about it, and their hopes and dreams for it.
We joke about “keeping up with the Joneses” — but there’s real competition in our society for status and the accompanying privilege. How do we decide what we most value that bestows this status? From education to wealth to gender to race, let’s talk about what we have…and what we desire.
In the News
In this series of three in-depth conversations, participants explore the complexities of the concepts of Race, Ethnicity, and their impacts on people from all walks of life.
We all care about the victims of gun violence. We all love our children and our family. This is a conversation about our hopes and concerns in order to develop a deeper understanding of the opportunities and challenges surrounding responsible gun ownership.
Most people need healthcare at some time in their lives. And we all want healthcare in our country to be high quality and affordable. What might happen if nation wide we had everyone’s best ideas to work with?
Browse all our Conversation Guides below from A-Z. Click the links to explore each Conversation Guide. You can also download a PDF of the conversation for your own use.
Political and philosophical differences are normal in a healthy and free society. No citizen should be expected to violate his or her own conscience or compromise sacred principles. But the common values we share, and our shared desire to solve common problems, should also enable us to make reasonable and principled compromises for our mutual well-being. In some instances, the Left and the Right fundamentally agree, yet the system somehow keeps us from working together.
How we treat each other is the difference between a great place to live and a bad place to live. We shape our world through relationships. Most people agree we want communities where all people have dignity and respect. Yet respectful interactions are often not what we see modeled in the media and in politics. And far too many people feel disrespected in their lives. What is our role in these dynamics?
In this conversation, we explore our own experience about how we learned to talk about politics . . . or to avoid it. We share stories about what has happened around our political conversations and consider the impact this has on our relationships with friends and family. This isn’t a conversation about issues, but rather a discovery of how we decide who to relate to and at what depth based on our knowledge of political views.
Create your own topic
We have over eighty topics, but maybe you can’t find one that appeals to you? You can build your own topic with these easy guidelines.
Tips to create your own :
- Work with your cohost to come up with several questions that satisfy you both.
- Be curious. What would you ask if you didn’t have an opinion or position?
- Examine what your own position is on the topic. Notice if you are framing questions that favor your viewpoint or disallow other viewpoints.
- How did you develop your own perspective? What question would bring that out?
- Beware of including trigger words in your questions, like climate change, anti-___, rights and control.
examples of Custom Conversations
Living Room Conversations has produced several custom conversations in partnership with civic and educational organizations. They are free to use; you can check them out below.