By John Kesler. Reprinted from Huffington Post.
Maturity is one important lens for assessing progress in developing a healthier American democracy both in terms of competent citizenship and effective leadership. This post will comment on the importance of educating students through high school with this perspective in mind. I reference stages of maturity which reflect well established developmental science(1). The next post will address the implications of these perspective for higher education. In future posts I will explore implications of maturity related to other societal issues in America.
People who have a developmental center of gravity at what I will call Stage One maturity tend to be oriented primarily to personal power, self-aggrandizement and self-gratification. Such behavior is developmentally appropriate for a two year old. A school yard bully is an example of a child who has not yet grown out of those qualities. Electing leaders who reflect such regressive and narcissistic tendencies (a Stage One shadow) should be avoided because they tend to manipulate truth as needed and are first and foremost self serving.
Stage Two maturity is oriented toward following the direction of strong authority and being loyal primarily to one’s own group such as one’s clique, race, religion or nation. It is important for students to be supported in developing Stage Two maturity in elementary school, because that is age appropriate. Yet it is critical for as many of our children as possible to grow beyond Stage 2 in high school and the rigid loyalties that remain limited to one’s group. Stage 2 is the level of maturity that enabled pre-democratic societies to be led by absolutist authority figures for thousands of years, and today sustains autocrats - such as President Putin in Russia - on both the right and the left. One must grow beyond Stage 2 in order to achieve the capacity for responsible citizenship in a constitutional democratic republic. Leaders in the public sector who function at Stage 2 are inherently dangerous because they are likely to be more committed to their group and national loyalties than to the universal principles that all constitutional democracies are grounded upon. Their ethnocentric message gives implicit legitimization to even more extreme actors at this stage of development - such as blatant racists - to step forward with their horrific political ideas.
As Stage Three capacities come on they enable a person to be able to think abstractly and to more fully appreciate the universal principles upon which all democratic constitutions are grounded. Ironically people with a Stage Three developmental center of gravity often tend to assert Stage Two loyalties with persuasive sophistication or in any case tend to assert highly ideological positions with great logical persuasion. This is not a matter of IQ; on can be a brilliant “defender of the faith.” They have a difficult time appreciating points of view other than their own, and tend to patronize or even sometimes demonize those who hold beliefs or positions other than their own. For example much of the paralysis in Congress reflects the dominance of such extreme partisanship, one sidedness and refusal to compromise to get things done. This is often touted as standing on principle, but it is a reflection of lack of maturity and capacity.
An ability and willingness to evaluate various perspectives and points of view relating to an issue and to make a principled, well reasoned choice is a bottom line competence for contributing citizenship in a democratic society. These characteristics come naturally at Stage Four maturity. An inherent challenge is that the developmental center of gravity of most students in high school tends to be in the range of Stages Two and Three.
An outstanding resource which support students – and the rest of us – to learn to function minimally at Stage Four is AllSides.com. AllSides is a web based resource which provides current news stories from left, right and center oriented media outlets. The bias ratings for these news sources are crowd sourced and averaged. In recent years news media have become increasingly biased, and the more we look for news and information limited to our own biases the more partisan we become. Most of us tend to get somewhat enveloped in a media bubble which confirms our own biases. AllSides encourages everyone to be aware of their own biases (which we all have) and to become informed about other points of view, and to interact with mutual respect and civility - prerequisites for a healthy democratic republic.
Stage Five maturity includes important additional capacities for an even more mature, effective and healthier democratic society: the interrelated tendencies to listen deeply to one another, to demonstrate critical thinking and to collaborate effectively. America and all democracies desperately need a critical mass of citizens and particularly leaders to exhibit these capacities in order to have any real hope of successfully addressing the increasingly complex challenges of the 21st century. Only around 25% of adults in developed countries are at a Stage 5 developmental center of gravity or higher. Yet with training, resources and tools and reinforcing culture and institutions which support and habituate such qualities, our youth can graduate from high school modeling these approaches and giving them a head start and impetus to fully mature into these qualities.
AllSides has collaborated with another program called Living Room Conversations to integrate these Stage 5 qualities into training resources for schools. The Living Room Conversations program provides an elegantly simple model with just a few guidelines which enable any small group to come together to have rich and respectful conversation regarding virtually any difficult topic. By combining AllSides resources and tools with the Living Room Conversations model, AllSides provides an unmatched resource for teachers and schools to support our youth in learning to participate thoughtfully and effectively in democracy and life and to help realize a healthier and more mature democracy in the coming decades.
The six stages of maturity above are correlated with the following stages designations used by both Suzanne Cook-Greuter PhD and Terri O”Fallon PhD in their respective human development scoring systems as follows: Stage One = 1.5; Stage Two = 2.5; Stage Three = 3.0; Stage Four = 3.5; Stage Five = 4.0. The author is certified in evaluating people through Dr. O’Fallon’s STAGES model of human development.